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Tuesday, February 14, 2006

It's all about Love

I love you without knowing how, why, or even from where. – Patch Adams


It's back again. Lovebirds waited for 364 days and nights just for this day to express three words to their sweethearts. How many times they rehearsed how to get started with a persona of their dream? Even mirror got bored to tears with incessant conversation, hand that countlessly fondle hairs and google letters that never reached destination. Huh!!, I have been a victim of those insane and irrational acts and this post is dedicated to girl of my dreams. It's not because of singularity and today is valentine day but why wait for things to happen, just make them happen. If you like someone just says it loud otherwise time will pass away.

Well, I had always felt mystic about infatuation, crush, love and all other phrases people used to symbolize feeling to their loved ones. One day, you came across a girl and a brainwave hits,” This is the girl I am seeking for my whole life and hey she seem lot like my girlfriend :P ". Does it's just about a beauty that mesmerizes soul or an unusual sensation that plucked strings of heart and engulf mind and heart into immortal feeling? It's really tough to frame feelings into words but for sure she had made unparallel impact and irresistible desires captures mind. I always bewildered, why people goes insane for just one person and forget about whole world but later I realize that love is about seeing whole world in one person. Only things that comes out is rearrangement of alphabets and putting 'U' and 'I' together.

One thing that I strongly believe that it’s not about looks, if it is just about looks than it’s not love. It is same like speaking, we don’t make friends over looks, it’s about matching frequency of thoughts, resonating minds, interference of ideas and coherence of understanding. Though there lays a greater probability to fall in love with a beautiful persona (I think many will agree to this) but what more important is an emotional bond based on caring, sharing and loving. If you have seen Shrek movie, then it’s apparent to feel that love will find it’s way and god will take care of your so called someone special and sooner or later you will get him/her.

Talking of love and not to mention DA-IICT couples is inevitable. I truly feel that boy’s girl relationship means differently to da-iictians and it’s just confined to spending time from morning breakfast to dinner, reading together in library, sit together in labs, cut-off social life, walking gol-gol after midnight and doing stupid things and writing testimonial to each others. What a sucking way, there is no friendly culture; it’s just hanged around committed or non-committed. Either gal’s cut-off from boys and being proud of, ”I am not of that type” (I have not understand what does “that type” means) or they are socially cut-off committed. It’s hard to get across minds of da-iict girls and it will remain a mystery. I think you guys also feel the same way. neway no offence to their definitions, everybody has a fundamental right of doing things in their own way.

Well, valentine day has just commenced and I am still bemused when I will get girl of my dreams. I do not feel abashed that I did not get my first crush but she taught me definition of love. I got understand, what it feels to fall in love, why people are mad about one person, why someone loses sleeps and do obnoxious acts. I can still envisage her beautiful face in my eyes and that simplicity and elegant look which knocked me down. Love is definitely a mystery and eternal phenomenon and only those who have felt this divinity can explain it. I truly feel that everybody should felt in love once in a lifetime. After all, love is most beautiful gift given by God. . So all those who has get one or those who hasn’t get girls of their dreams should not loose heart, if your love is true then it will come back to you.

Happy Valentines Day sweetheart



Tuesday, February 07, 2006

Mayonnaise jar and Beer.

One of my friend had sent me this story and i found it awesome.

A perspective on life which is so real and relevant. When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember Mayonnaise jar and Beer.

Here it goes...

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty Mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fillit with golf balls. He then asked the class if the jar was full. They agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He asked the students again if the jar was full. They said yes. The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured it into thejar.Of course, the sand filled up the rest of the space. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students said yes once more. The professor then produced two cans of beer from under the table and poured the entire contents of both cans into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand.

The students laughed."Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided -"I want you to recognize that this Jar represents your Life. The Golf balls are the important things - your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions -things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The Pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The Sand is everything else - the small stuff." "If you put the sand into the jar first, there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. There will always be time to clean the house, and fix the sink. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand." One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented. The professor smiled "I'm glad you asked, it just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers."

Cheers!